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'Who's Viewed Me' lets you see who's been checking out your profile. This feature is only available to Gold members. To see who's viewed you, select 'Who's Viewed Me' () from the left-hand navigation. Gold members and Privac...

Favourites let you save your favourite members, so you can easily find them later on. Adding a favourite To add a favourite, select 'Favourite' (★) in your Matches, on profile pages, or in search results. Viewing your favourites T...

Messaging someone you're interested in is a great way to connect. Your email address isn't shared with the sender or receiver. Messages are private and can only be accessed by the sender, receiver and our Support team (in line with Tr...

Matches will automatically find members that best match what you're looking for, based on the criteria you set. To set up your Matches criteria, select 'Matches' (♥) from the left-hand navigation, then select the 'Edit match criteria' tab. Y...

The message board is a place for members to connect. All members can view posts. Gold membership is required to post on the message board. Before posting, check out the rules. Starting a post Select 'Message board' from the le...

Our Message Board is provided for the enjoyment of the entire FindSomeone community and is moderated by members and, at times, by FindSomeone staff. It's a forum for sharing advice about dating, supporting other members on their journ...

Gold and Privacy Plus memberships are subscriptions, charged monthly, after your initial subscription period. Your Gold or Privacy Plus subscription can be cancelled at any time. Check your next payment Open the drop...

FindSomeone is a service provided by Trade Me Limited. This means Trade Me's privacy policy applies to our use, collection, storage and disclosure of your information when you use Findsomeone. See clause 8 of the privacy policy, which h...

Learn how to find or create an Event On this page: Find an event Create an event Edit or cancel an event Find an event To find an event near you: Select 'Events' (📅) from the left-hand naviga...

To find an event near you, select 'Events' (📅) from the left-hand navigation. To filter by location, select your region by clicking the 'All of NZ' dropdown. Any member fitting the event criteria can view an event and the list ...

Every search result has a 'Hide' button. Members you've hidden won't appear in searches or matches results. Hidden members will still appear in some results, including Inbox, Favourites, Who's Favourited Me and Who's Viewed Me. ...

Gold members can: send unlimited messages, smiles, winks, hugs, kisses and roses view all of a member's public photos appear first in search results use the Do We Match? feature on profiles Use the Who's Viewed Me...

Privacy Plus empowers you to be in control of your privacy on the site. You can be more selective about who can see your profile and contact you. Gold members have Privacy Plus included. For Basic members, Privacy Plus is $4.95 per mon...

Your profile photo is the first photo people see when they search or match with you. Your other photos will still be available for other members to view on your profile. Uploading a photo Open the drop-down menu in the top-right, then...

Privacy settings Choose who can view your profile and photos, and where we show your profile. To change your privacy settings: Open the drop-down menu in the top-right and select 'Account settings'. ...