I was not meeting anyone I really "clicked" with and I'd only joined for one month as a gold member. After 3-4 weeks I was beleaguered so one Sunday evening I logged on to "log off", remove my picture and profile. I had a little time as the kids were in bed and I decided to scroll through lots of "matches" and reduced my search to gold members only. Philip's picture came up and he looked interesting...I read his profile focussing on his New Zealand/Irish culture he wrote about. I'd found someone who professed to enjoy "humour to the point of silliness"....thank the Lord! And here we are...3 weeks down the track smitten, ridiculously happy, in love and very well matched. I am English/Irish/NZ and can't believe I found such a wonderful friend and soul mate.